Last night I was driving to a meeting for a women's group I am a part of and the song Lean on Me came on the radio. As I was singing along I started really thinking about the words of the song and the meaning and how it relates to our IF experience. So far I have not shared this experience with anyone besides J mainly because I wasn't sure how people would respond and I didn't want them to feel sorry for us. I've been thinking more about how this is a lot to face all on our own and it might be a good idea to share this with at least a few close friends and family members. It would probably stop the "so, when are you going to have kids" questions, but it might allow us to lean on these people when things are really difficult and it never hurts to have other people praying for you or at least sending good thoughts your way.